Chastity & Cuckolding

It is unfortunate, but in our experience the majority of married submissive men are married to women who just aren’t interested in female domination. Sometimes a husband does succeed in bringing this new joy to his wife, but alas we think that a husband successfully making a vanilla wife into a kinky wife is quite rare.

Also, in our experience, we know that a great many men are most interested in their fantasies of chastity, and that they view tease and denial / orgasm control games a good starting point in their discussions about femdom with their wives. Said hubby figures that most women would jump at the chance of having his cock locked away just for her, and admittedly such domination takes very little effort on the wives part for the husband to experience tremendous effect. This is why sales of the CB3000 and its brothers are so very high.

Alas though, we don’t think that very many wives at all take their husbands up on their offers of, and pleas for chastity. We think that loads of chastity devices are sold; yet very few are worn. We think this is because the submissive men are forgetting something very important about women. Women, even those with low libidos, want a man around whom they can fuck, even women who wholly prefer receiving oral sex to intercourse want a strong, virile man around. These women are of course fearful that the imposition of chastity on their husbands will harm the sexual abilities of their men, and of course they are correct. Physically, psychologically, emotionally, one way or the other the man who looses the ability to control his own orgasm will change a little, or a lot.

We have a suggestion to share which we believe could help a great many of the men out there who just haven’t been able to convince their wives to embrace the concept and practice of male orgasm denial.

Our suggestion is simply that the submissive husband who desires a chastity lifestyle, even a femdom lifestyle, not waste his time encouraging his wife to lock his little peepee away, or start buying fancy floggers, for his chances of success just aren’t great given her fears of loosing her sexual partner and often the fear of loosing some measure of respect for her husband. Both of which must be recognized as valid fears.

Instead he should we think simply make his femdom, chastity desires known to her, and then encourage her to go out and find a nice man or two, or ten to fuck. If she does this he should encourage her outside explorations, and help her with them all he can. We don’t mean help her by helping her get dressed in her sexiest lingerie before her dates either, although this can admittedly be amazingly fun for both husband and wife, we mean help her by babysitting the kids while she is out, taking care of the house while she is out so that she can enjoy her date without worrying about what a mess her husband is making while she is away.

Once she finds that man or those men who can provide her with great sex she will loose her fears about keeping her husband in chastity, for she will know that she need not rely upon him for her sexual needs.

There you have it, our advice to all of the submissive husbands unable to get their wives interested in bdsm. We hope that perhaps it will be helpful to someone.

Cuckolding comes before chastity. Presenting femdom to a wife in this order we think will greatly enhance a submissive males chances of success.