Our Introduction

Now that we have some necessary background posts out of the way, we would like to introduce ourselves to those readers who find this journal first.

For purposes of this journal, we shall call her Mistress. In her late 30’s and so very sexy that she has been featured in two glossy fetish magazines, both from Europe with worldwide distribution. She has been very heavily involved with bdsm her entire adult life, not a day passing for her without some bit of female domination, and on average a formal scene with a submissive every other day or so. She has in the past, briefly, oh so amazingly briefly, tried the submissive role. This very short experience simply proved to her that she is a dominant at heart.

For purposes of this journal, we shall call him Cuckold. Also in his late 30’s and at the top of his game in his chosen field of endeavor. He has also been heavily involved with bdsm his entire adult life, although admittedly not at her extreme level of daily involvement. He has traditionally played the dominant role, yet always harbored the strongest fantasies for the submissive role. His early submissive experiences did not however endear that position to him.

They have been happily, and successfully married for just under 20 years. Needless to say based upon what is written above, they learned early on that they were not compatible with each other when it came to bdsm. Two dominants just don’t make a scene. Obviously this was bothersome to them both, so they did keep trying to figure out how to play together through the years, yet alas, those efforts came to no avail.

Facing this difficulty they did what any healthy American perverts would do, and they each sought out other people to play with. Subby guys for her, subby girls for him. And we must admit, the occasional subby girl for her too. They built a large and comfortable bdsm studio, and like kids in a candy store stocked it with every darn kinky thing they could find. Speaking of kids, they also managed to avoid having any of the little monsters knowing that children and their kink-centered lifestyle were not compatible.

Then, with no particular plan, everything changed.

She was given a couple of tickets to Maui, but he had to work and couldn’t accompany her. As she didn’t want to go alone he suggested that she take a fellow whom she had been playing with, but not sexual with, for a number of years.

The second day of her trip she called him up at his office and said that she had been so turned on the night before that this night she intended to have sex with her traveling partner. He replied that it sounded like a good plan to him, their marriage had never been a monogamous one, and neither of them particularly believes that monogamy is a wonderful thing. No big deal.

But of course, it turns out that it was. It was a very big deal. It is in fact the entire reason we are here, writing this journal.

Very soon, while her husband was traveling out of town for work, her former traveling companion, now lover was staying at the house with her, and it was a few days every week, right from the start.

This was two years ago, and this turn of events is what finally allowed us to find that very elusive bdsm relationship that we had searched for over so many years. Actually it is not proper to call our relationship a bdsm relationship, for it does not include many of the elements commonly thought of as bdsm. It is a Dominant/submissive relationship, for clearly she has taken to making all of the rules that govern it, and he has taken to submitting to those rules. It is a Mistress/slave relationship, for clearly she has acted as a slave owner will and created those rules without the communication or negotiation that are hallmarks of consensual bdsm, and he has like any slave been presented only one choice, to submit without complaint to her rules, or loose the relationship. Lastly it is a female superiority relationship, for she has required it to be focused entirely upon her female sexuality.

After so many years of struggling to find a way in which we were compatible in the dungeon, we are of course thrilled to have finally found the perfect kinky relationship for ourselves. Especially since it was a complete accident. We didn’t plan it; we didn’t think about it, we didn’t even realize it was happening until it did.

Shortly after those multi day visits with her lover while here husband was out of town working she decided that her lover would simply be here with us each and every weekend. That she and her lover would share the bed in her room, and that her husband, we can start calling him Cuckold now would stay in a downstairs bedroom. She didn’t ask Cuckold if this was OK with him, or attempt to negotiate as good perverts do, she simply did it, and he was required to obey. To, when he wasn’t invited to watch or participate just lay in bed alone listening to them find pleasure with each other.

He hadn’t participated in their erotic encounters, or even watched very many, less certainly than the fingers on a single hand when she decided that such pleasures would no longer belong to her husband. She simply banned him from those encounters, and he remains banned to this day. Again he was not consulted, was not asked for his thoughts, she simply created her law, her rule, and required him to obey.

Very soon she stopped actively hiding the nature of her relationship with her lover. Likely a subconscious desire to further humiliate her husband led her to this decision, and she started displaying affection towards her lover in places where she would obviously be seen, and started showing him off to all of their friends. Again, this was not negotiated or discussed, she simply required Cuckold to cheerfully submit to this new humiliation.

Almost exactly a year passed by while all of the above, and of course all the things we are forgetting to include, transpired.

When that year had gone by she moved her dominance, and his slavery to a much higher level. She banned him from having intercourse with her. Not a temporary ban, not a fun game of denial, simply a flat out decision that she had fucked her husband for the very last time in their lives. Like all the previous years decisions she did not ask for his opinion on it, or his consent, she simply decreed it and demanded that he obey. That was roughly a year after that fateful trip to Maui, and a little bit more than a year ago. She has of course remained true to her word and he has been given no opportunity to enter her.

Very soon after the ban on intercourse with Cuckold she banned him from giving her oral sex as well. She had removed all possibility of him ever giving Mistress another orgasm. Of course once again she did not ask for his view on this step, or for his consent, she simply commanded him to obey.

After another very short period of time she made the final decision in his sexual enslavement and banned him having any sexual contact with Mistress. He is allowed no erotic touching of her exciting bits. Of course, she asked for no consent, and of course he obeyed her demands.

That is where our relationship now stands. It likely seems very strange to most who will read this journal, but we are both absolutely thrilled with it. We have finally figured out a way in which to exchange power with each other, and our love for each other continues to grow. Not to mention she is having amazing sex with a man she adores, and he is intoxicated by her brazen abuse of power and her utter disregard for his concerns.

This rise in power for her, and descent into slavery for him have occurred in two distinct times with a good deal of adjustment time in between. Now we think that she will be expanding her power and increasing his slavery again very soon. Cuckold doesn’t know what she has in mind, and Mistress will not tell here in this post for then he would, but we think her new demands will likely focus on orgasm denial, extreme anal training, extreme verbal humiliation, and a very nasty regular duty or two. She has hinted to Cuckold that these are on her mind, and likely they are, or perhaps they are a ruse. Our readers here will find out for sure just as soon as he does. One thing is for certain, whatever she decides to do we are sure that it will be extreme, for as her cuckolding and sexual bans show, we play well when we play at the extreme edge.