No Guilt Feelings

Feelings of guilt can destroy any relationship, vanilla or D/s. Furthermore, in a D/s relationship feelings of guilt can stop the dominant from demanding that her wishes are met. Feelings of guilt are negative and should not be allowed to grow within a relationship.

Last night Mistress was feeling a bit low. She has been working very hard as of late making her tired, her time of the month is coming about making her a bit emotional, and she is just a little under the weather. These three things combined served to put her in a bit of a funk last night.

At bedtime she spent some time with Cuckold, sharing the affection we hold for each other. During that time she mentioned to him in passing that she just didn’t feel up to sex with her lover, that she would be climbing into bed with only some good quality sleep on her mind.

Not too long after she left him Cuckold heard the sounds of her achieving orgasm. Quite obviously her lover was able to seduce the negative feelings out of her, and replace them with a positive desire for sex and orgasm.

Some women may feel thoughts of guilt over cuckolding their husbands, yet they should not. Had Mistress a long time ago not demanded that Cuckold obey her demands for a rather extreme form of cuckolding relationship she would not have had a lover available to her last night who was both willing and able to make her feel a bit better.

Some women may feel thoughts of guilt over denying sexual privileges to their husbands, yet they should not. Had Mistress a long time ago not demanded that Cuckold obey her demands for a complete ban upon sexual contact between him and her, he would likely have tried to seduce her to make her feel better, failed to do so due to his inferior abilities in that area, and ruined whatever chance she had to find sexual pleasure last night which would have made him feel bad, and her feel worse.

An entire foundation of D/s relationships is the recognition that the dominant partner has a right to have her needs met, as she sees fit. She should surely never feel guilty over demanding that this happen. Even if her desires are extreme as Mistress’s desires for Cuckold are there is still no reasonable cause for guilt feelings within her, as her selfishness is a vital part of the relationship, and the relationship could not remain happy without it.

Some men may feel thoughts of guilt when they are unable to meet the needs of their wives. For example, the vanilla man in a situation similar to that which we faced last night might drift off to sleep feeling just a tad bit guilty that he was unable to make his wife feel a bit better.

In our relationship, last night, Cuckold was made to feel no such thoughts, in fact, he was able to feel just the opposite, pride in the fact that he did help to make her feel better.

He has obeyed her demands for an extreme form of cuckolding, so last night there was a lover in her bed who is far superior to Cuckold in seducing her and taking her mind off the stresses of the day.

He has obeyed her demands to not touch her delightful bits in an erotic way, so last night there was no chance for him to clumsily attempt a seduction of her which would have only made him feel badly, and her feel even worse when it failed.

Instead, through his obedience he was able to do his part to make her feel better, to ensure her orgasm before she drifted off to sleep. He can feel pride in that fact.

Through extremely selfish demands on the part of Mistress, and absolute obedience to those demands on the part of Cuckold we are able to experience far fewer negative emotions, and that is always a wonderful thing, and a wonderful way to live.